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I'm new to the whole BDSM world. My wife and I started watching how to build a sex room and were intrigued. We've tried a few restraints and flogger and have thoroughly enjoyed ourselves. I'm looking to get more info on the dominant and submissive aspects.
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I have watched a couple episodes of "How to build a Sex Room".
It seems like the people doing the show are very much into appearances but not much into practical experience.
The first episode is a good example. Everything is cool looking like what one might find in a sex shop, but if you consider that this was a converted laundry room in the basement and what its new purpose is, it is pretty stupid to remove the plumbing that was already there. After a session, do you REALLY want to have to climb stairs carrying insertables that you have just used or would you rather have a place to clean up or at least wash your hands and anything else that might need cleaning first? Look at the handcuffs that are on display near the end of the episode. They are the cheap $5 made in China POS types with a little tab to release so that even a key is not needed. They are also thin steel which would cut a prisoner who might pull against them. Good for appearance. Not good for function.
The show seems adequate for entertainment but not great for useful information.
It seems like the people doing the show are very much into appearances but not much into practical experience.
The first episode is a good example. Everything is cool looking like what one might find in a sex shop, but if you consider that this was a converted laundry room in the basement and what its new purpose is, it is pretty stupid to remove the plumbing that was already there. After a session, do you REALLY want to have to climb stairs carrying insertables that you have just used or would you rather have a place to clean up or at least wash your hands and anything else that might need cleaning first? Look at the handcuffs that are on display near the end of the episode. They are the cheap $5 made in China POS types with a little tab to release so that even a key is not needed. They are also thin steel which would cut a prisoner who might pull against them. Good for appearance. Not good for function.
The show seems adequate for entertainment but not great for useful information.
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If you have the inclination to build your own BDSM toys and equipment try this site
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