What do you mean it has 'only' been a month ?!?
Does anyone else know you are into or wearing a chastity device? Currently my wife and a female coworker/friend know I wear a cage. My wife does not know my coworker knows about them. The coworker (Vanilla) found out accidently while scrolling through my phone and over the years has found out about mine and my wife's kinks and has never said anything. At work she does bring up a kink or something relative to it during coffee break.