chastity device

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vffb
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chastity device

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Hello all... I want a device that will help me control my, hmm, constant desire to have sex... Any suggestions? Does a chastity device just frustrate or over time do you long term users get more used to the fact you just can't use it?

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seidenki
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Re: chastity device

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vffb wrote:Hello all... I want a device that will help me control my, hmm, constant desire to have sex... Any suggestions? Does a chastity device just frustrate or over time do you long term users get more used to the fact you just can't use it?
You do get a little used to the face you just can't Use It, as you say, but the desire doesn't really go away. For me, it becomes an exercise in frustration. Delicious, maddening frustration, mind.

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Re: chastity device

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I guess what I want to know is do you get kinda used to it, being caged and is that a better frustration that being free and not getting enough "opportunities?
What would you recommend to start off with?

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Re: chastity device

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I would recommend starting off with CB6000 type device. Purchase directly from www.cb-x.com if you can as you will get a warranty that will include replacement. They are relatively inexpensive and include alot of sizing options so that you can figure out how best to fit it to keep security as high as possible while not causing health issues. That said, you should realize that it's very hard to have self-enforced chastity that's inescapable. Even assuming that you get a perfect fit, the plastic devices can be broken and removed. Metal devices are much more secure, but more expensive.

As for 'getting used to it'... yeah eventually. Alot of it depends on your age, hormone level, level of teasing/arousal, etc. I do find that I'll spend much less time on porn type materials while in chastity because I know theres not much point other than getting myself stirred up and being unable to do anything about it. Chastity doesn't make me frustrated provides a clarity of what's important. I get more things done that I've been postponing and things like that. I'm also generally a bit nicer to my family and wife/mistress, at least in the 5day-14day period.

I dont think it will change your desires, but it will change your ability to act on them. Which in time may impact how often you focus on those desires.

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