I have a wonderful and stable life with a very good and exciting job, married to a beautiful wife for the last 7 years. I have had several, some pretty advanced/intense, BDSM relations in the past, but I ended up in a ‘rather’ vanilla marriage. Over time we have tried some kinky and fun experiments, we have done some swinging on a couple occasions as she does/did enjoy female-female adventures. So, it has not completely vanilla although we haven’t done anything quit that adventures for a long time. It is also crystal clear that bdsm is not her cup of tea. Not even a soft version as she seems to have become even more vanilla in the last two years.
Myself however, I’m missing the kink and graving for bdsm interaction again. I wonder is there are people out there that found themselves in a similar situation and how they satisfy their bdsm needs...