This was from someone I was talking to and sending naked pics to. I met them on a mental health forum, not on here. They said they weren't a proper dom and then when they told me to have a bath and shave and I said I'd just had a shower and I'm not shaving he started going on about how I'm a bad sub and what a proper sub should do and how I'm only doing it halfway.
I think calling someone a bad sub cause they're not giving up enough control is manipulative and abusive.