Does Anyone Else know?

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Does anyone else know you are into or wearing a chastity device? Currently my wife and a female coworker/friend know I wear a cage. My wife does not know my coworker knows about them. The coworker (Vanilla) found out accidently while scrolling through my phone and over the years has found out about mine and my wife's kinks and has never said anything. At work she does bring up a kink or something relative to it during coffee break.

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wildcard wrote: 21 Sep 2021, 14:28 Does anyone else know you are into or wearing a chastity device? Currently my wife and a female coworker/friend know I wear a cage. My wife does not know my coworker knows about them. The coworker (Vanilla) found out accidently while scrolling through my phone and over the years has found out about mine and my wife's kinks and has never said anything. At work she does bring up a kink or something relative to it during coffee break.
Sometimes at work she would pat my crotch. At first she caught me off guard and I'd ask " What are you doing?" She would just reply " Just checking to see if you are in a time out". On an occasion or two after knowing I had a chastity cage on she would look directly at me and say " I want to F**k that big C*ck of yours" Now she knows I am married we both know she is just playing along. but it is pretty funny to hear it.

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Why not ask her why she is not wearing a belt. Tell her that way she can enjoy the feeling also.

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RAE123 wrote: 20 Dec 2021, 01:00 Why not ask her why she is not wearing a belt. Tell her that way she can enjoy the feeling also.
My friend is what I consider very vanilla. When I tell her that she argues she isn't but I have not heard anything different. She knows about my kinks and is interested in my stories. I've offered a new small ball gag and she held it to her mouth and said this doesn't do it for me. But I like when your are wearing your blue one. I guess some people enjoy their vanilla.

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For the past couple weeks my friend has been working from home. At the end of last week she called my office to see if I could send her a couple reports. While I was on the phone sending out the reports, she out of the blue asked me if I had a cage on. I said that is none of her business. Then my cellphone was ringing Facetime, I asked her what are you doing? She said tap your cellphone on your crotch, I want to hear if you have a cage on. As I'm trying to lower the volume on my phone, I give in and you could clearly hear I had a metal cage on. She hung up on Facetime and returned to the landline and started giggling like a little kid. Evidently while she had been at home she was thinking about my cage. I guess I made her day.

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I think your friend is less "vanilla" than you or she have been making out ... and also a bit of a flirt.

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This past week my wife had to travel for business, and through daily conversion it came up with my coworker/friend. She asked me point blank "Did she leave you caged up?" Now my wife and I play around a lot but we have limits, and she wouldn't leave me with a metal chastity cage on. I lied my friend YES I had my metal cage on. She read me the riot act and how foolish and dangerous it was. After that daily she would text me cryptic messages referring to my cage. At one point she actually felt bad for me and was mad at my wife. I told her not to be mad and it was to prevent me from having alone time. Also I told her the only reason I tell her about my adventures it to make her laugh and brighten her day. Her reply was "Well you are a slutty little bitch"

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Perhaps your co-worker could become your emergency key holder when your wife has to travel? :D There are a LOT of guys being locked up for weeks or months, but I wonder how many (if any) are true and what they use, if anything, for emergency release?

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JaniceNoyb wrote: 11 Mar 2022, 19:16 Perhaps your co-worker could become your emergency key holder when your wife has to travel? :D There are a LOT of guys being locked up for weeks or months, but I wonder how many (if any) are true and what they use, if anything, for emergency release?
My friend's thought is it should never be locked up and if you want to play with it you should be able too. So she would just unlock it as soon as I handed her the key. She thinks it's funny how anyone would wear such a thing and more concerned if I got in an accident or rushed to the hospital.
I have let her thought many times I've had it on for an extended period of time, but in reality I don't wear it that long. My wife an I play around, but we would not risk any side effects from wearing a cage for extend times. But my friend thinks my wife is some dominating lady (too much internet) that controls everything.

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You have a much more sane and sensible approach. Best to let you work friend continue with her fantasies. The truth would be boring for her. I can see how she would be amusing at first, but could get to be tedious after a while.

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One day my friend knew I was wearing a cage at work. I told her I've been wearing it for a week (put it on in the morning) and she told me to tell my wife that is too long and demand her to take it off. I laughed at her and she said grow a set and tell her. The next day at coffee break she checked and felt the metal cage (put it on in the morning) and said what happened. I made up a story and told her I demanded my wife take it off and my wife said ok. She put handcuffs on me. Then she grabbed my cage and used a Q-Tip to put Tiger Balm on my penis thru the cage and left me squirming. My friend is very aware what my chastity cages look like on me and called my wife pure evil and was sorry to telling me to stick up for myself. I actually share true stories with her and her eye widen every time.

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Last week while having coffee I was telling my coworker I was packed and ready for my 2 week vacation. Spending a week in Florida visiting friends and relatives, then the wife and I are taking a cruise to the Caribbean. As I am telling her my plans and activities we have planned for 2 weeks, she asked me if we are taking any toys with us. I asked her if she heard anything I just said. After she repeated herself, I said we make use of luggage straps and belts. She was referring my chastity cages, and I told her I would probably stuck in one most of the time. Then she starts by telling me how wrong that is and they have metal detectors at airports and getting on and off the cruise ships. How they will pull me out of the line and bring me to another room to show them. I told her while traveling I wear a plastic chastity cage. (she has actually has seen it and is the replica of my metal one). I was telling her the islands we will be visiting and need a few days on the beach. My friend knows I wear thong swimsuits and has seen many pictures of me at the beach. Some suits you can clearly see that I am wearing a cage. She did say at least I will not be falling out of my swimsuit while caged and asked to text her some pictures.

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